Every time we had sex it hurt

About a year ago, when I was 17, I lost my virginity to my boyfriend. I had been feeling the need to experience sex for a while and almost made the mistake of doing it with someone who did not care about me. I'm glad I waited. However, like many girls, my first wasn't that pleasant. or my second time, or third or fourth or firth or sixt, etc. Every time we had sex it hurt. It extremely hurt. For a while I felt that since I started having sex with my boyfreind I couldn't just take it away from him so I continued on like this for a couple months. Sometimes i'd cry after sex. I tried to hide it from my boyfriend but on New Years Eve we went out and partied, drank, and tried to have sex. I couldn't take it anymore and started crying a lot, right in the middle of sex. It shocked my boyfriend. He calmed me down, let me sleep, and the next day we had a serious talk. We continued to try to have sex but only when I felt comfortable, and slowly. One night we spent the night together (I know it's a cliche but it was on prom night) and for once had sex with minimal discomfort. I still have many problems with certain sexual positions but because I waited for the right man who cares about me, we were able to experiment with what I was comfortable with instead of forcing sex on me. A couple months after that I experienced my first orgasm due to sex [intercourse] (not oral or fingers). It was the best orgasm of my life and I can't wait to have one again. It hasn't happened again, yet, but we're working on it.

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