My First Orgasm

"...Since then I have approached sex with an open mind, realizing that a lot of "common knowledge" is straight myth..."

The first time I had an orgasm it was during intercourse at 16, with a patient, experienced man eager to guide me toward a pleasurable view of sex. I had touched myself before this, and experienced pleasure from it, but had a feeling of taboo against further exploration, thinking that sexuality is something that was shared, instead of a personal thing that can be mingled with someone else's. In fact, despite the intense pleasure gained from experiencing orgasm with intercourse, I didn't have my first solo orgasm for another year or two, and regular masturbation soon followed, naturally. I just didn't think that most women masturbated.

Since then I have approached sex with an open mind, realizing that a lot of "common knowledge" is straight myth. Such as men's vs. women's capability of visual stimulation. I have started looking at porn regularly for the last six months, which has resulted in faster stimulation and stronger orgasms, as well as gaining insight into men's common sex mistakes (lack of clitoral stimulation is evident in a huge amount of porn).

I believe that some encouragement of masturbation in children would result in further development of their unique physical preferences, and the resulting confidence in self-knowledge will prompt the communication necessary with your partner to ensure everybody's happiness.






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